New --managed option for use when running under a daemon supervisor.

The effect is secnet is told that it is running as a daemon right from
the start, so it knows to follow the logging rules for daemons but not
to fork.

The conflation of daemonization with dropping privilege is also
unpicked by this patch.  Most importantly this ensures that errors
from PHASE_GETRESOURCES operations such as 'route' commands is sent to
the logfile (or syslog).

Signed-off-by: Richard Kettlewell <rjk@terraraq.org.uk>