Python IP addresses: Use modern ipaddr.py - supports IPv6

Switch to using the modern ipaddr.py from Scott Kitterman, and our own
ipaddrset.py.

The upshot is that make-secnet-sites now supports IPv6.

Aside from adjusting the code in make-secnet-sites to conform to the
new API, we also delete the old Cendio ipaddr.py, and delete the code
to install it, and document the new dependency both in INSTALL and in
the Debian package metadata.

Signed-off-by: Ian Jackson <ijackson@chiark.greenend.org.uk>