util, utf8: make ellipsize take multi-byte characters into account

util, utf8: make ellipsize take multi-byte characters into account

rename old versions to ascii_*

Do not take into account zerowidth characters, but do consider double-wide characters.
Import needed utf8 helper code from glib.

v3: rebase ontop of utf8 restructuring work

[zj: tweak the algorithm a bit, move new code to separate file]