everywhere: port everything to sigprocmask_many() and friends

everywhere: port everything to sigprocmask_many() and friends

This ports a lot of manual code over to sigprocmask_many() and friends.

Also, we now consistly check for sigprocmask() failures with
assert_se(), since the call cannot realistically fail unless there's a
programming error.

Also encloses a few sd_event_add_signal() calls with (void) when we
ignore the return values for it knowingly.