Use `systemctl --user --force exit` to implement the systemd-exit
user service.
This removes our dependence on an external `kill` binary and the
concerns about whether they recognize SIGRTMIN+n by name or what their
interpretation of SIGRTMIN is.
Tested: `systemctl --user start systemd-exit.service` kills the
`systemd --user` instance for my user.
#if 0 /// elogind has a bit different list and some adaptions
# progs = [['quotaon', '/usr/sbin/quotaon' ],
# ['quotacheck', '/usr/sbin/quotacheck' ],
-# ['kill', '/usr/bin/kill' ],
# ['kmod', '/usr/bin/kmod' ],
# ['kexec', '/usr/sbin/kexec' ],
# ['sulogin', '/usr/sbin/sulogin' ],