cgroup: rework which files we chown() on delegation

cgroup: rework which files we chown() on delegation

On cgroupsv2 we should also chown()/chmod() the subtree_control file,
so that children can use controllers the way they like.

On cgroupsv1 we should also chown()/chmod() cgroups.clone_children, as
not setting this for new cgroups makes little sense, and hence delegated
clients should be able to write to it.

Note that error handling for both cases is different. subtree_control
matters so we check for errors, but the clone_children/tasks stuff
doesn't really, as it's legacy stuff. Hence we only log errors and
proceed.

Fixes: #6216